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Achieve Your Goals with 3 Steps

Written by:  Kraig Ware, VP of Commercial Growth

Why is it that some people just have goals and other’s obtain them?  What if their secret to success is simple?  It is…if you follow these 3 Steps.

Your goal is just a dream or vision if it isn’t written down.  A written goal is like a destination that you want to go to; but, you haven’t been there before.

The power of a writing down your goals is bigger than you think.  warningI read a great book by Tony J. Hughes called The Joshua Principle.  It cited a study from a graduation class that only 3% of students had specific written goals at graduation.  When these graduates were surveyed twenty years later, this minority (3%) made more money than the other 97% combined.

Step One is to write down your goals.  Once that is completed, two things usually happen.  One, the excitement will kick in and you will more than likely jump straight to Step Three and GO or two, you will do nothing at all.  Don’t make these mistakes. To use a driving analogy, let’s say you are in your car and you want to get to a destination that you haven’t been to before.  First, you would obtain a physical address and type it into your GPS or let Siri know where you wanted to go.  To take some words from the group Clash, “Should I STAY or should I GO now?”  What’s your answer:

ANSWER:  STAY

So, your in your car, GPS set…what if you just sit there, engine running, with your car in park?

I realize that this doesn’t make any sense.  But seriously, have you ever had a goal that you didn’t start to do what was necessary to obtain it?  Today? 2017? 2016? 2015? 2014?   If we’re honest with ourselves, it is no different than sitting in a running car, GPS set, and our gear in park.

Everything you need, just no driver.

ANSWER:  GO

Why do so many people veer off the course at this point and fail to obtain their goals?

To keep with the driving analogy.  Now your car is in drive and you are making “progress” toward your destination (written goal).   Once the destination (goal) is set, your GPS or mobile device is ready to give you directions, step by step, to your set destination (goal).
car-shoulderPerhaps, your car is out of line or doesn’t have enough gas…meaning, even though you are trying to drive toward your goal, which is commendable, your car keeps wanting to veer off course or worse yet, run out of gas.  Your car needs a simple alignment and a full tank.  In our case, we might need some time to think things out, create a detailed plan, and get some help, guidance, knowledge, or other resources to keep us from veering off course and stay aligned to our goal(s).  Not only will it take less effort in the long run, it will get you there with less wear-and-tear on your car (you).

OK, so what is the Second Step?

failure-jordan2In my opinion, failure is not a bad thing, at least an effort is being made to get to your goal.  Failure is just one step towards your success.  On top of that, valuable things will be learned along the way.  I believe that we fall short of our goals because we leave out Step Two all to often.

Before you jump in the car and go, you need to do Step Two and ask yourself three questions:  #1 Why?  #2 When?  #3 How?

These three questions are vital as they fuel your passion providing motivation (WHY), set a timeline/deadline (WHEN), and create a well thought out plan and/or establish needs/resources (HOW).

Don’t miss this…Step Two is the hardest and most important step.  

Let’s keep with the driving analogy and set our destination(goal) for a new restaurant we have been wanting to try out.  How could we fail at such a simple goal?  Well…to keep things simple, perhaps you “really” aren’t hungry (WHY), or you missed your reservation time and they’re booked up when you arrive (WHEN), or you left the house without your wallet (HOW).  All three areas (questions) need to be aligned for your goal(s) to be obtained.

These tips will help you on your current journey to obtain your goals.  If you haven’t set your goals just yet, no worries.  The great thing about setting written goals, they can be set at any time.  It doesn’t have to be done when a new year arrives.  If you want to make something better or obtain something great, take these three simple steps:

Step One – Write down your goal(s).

Step Two – Ask yourself/team three questions: Why? When? How?

Step Three – Go!

One last thought…nothing great really happens by accident or is going to show up at your doorstep.  Extraordinary things, take extraordinary people, with extraordinary effort. We are all capable of being extraordinary, it’s a choice.  Bottom line…the secret to success is you.  Good luck!

I encourage your feedback and would like to connect with you on LinkedIn. You can also follow me at twitter @SKraigWare as I focus on striving for excellence within the business world and within our personal lives. Learn more about TYGES at www.TYGES.com, on Twitter @TYGESInt, or here on our blog at https://reinventingrecruiting.com/

Our mission is simple:

We’re here to make good things happen to other people.

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The Maze

Written by:  Kraig Ware, VP of Operations

Recently my oldest son brought home one of his writing projects from middle school called “The Maze.”  It is a fictional story that he wrote about a family that was going on a dream vacation.  Along the way, a choice had to be made…a critical choice.  More than a creative story, the “choice” made towards the end of the journey is simply incredible.  I hope you see the value/consequence of the choices we all make through the eyes of this young man.  Enjoy…

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THE MAZE

by: Shelton Ware (unedited)

Once there was a family taking a trip to the country for what they thought would be their dream vacation. They were driving down the old dilapidated country road and noticed they were low on fuel. They found an old gas station and walked in to pay for the gas.Gas station3  There was no one in the store, just a sign that said, “I’ll be back in an hour”.  So the family looked around on the maps for another gas station, but the nearest one was more than an hour away and would not be able to make it.  So they would have to wait.

Another eerie sign all around the store said “beware of blur”.

They thought it was just something fake and put it out of their minds.
Maze2Across the street there was a corn maze it looked very odd but the family did not think much of it. The family thought it would be something fun to do while they wait.  The instant the family entered the corn maze chills ran down their backs.

They dismissed it as wind and continued on through the maze.  Then they heard footsteps in the corn and they knew it was not them walking because they were frozen in fear. All the sudden a black thing as it was indescribably fast it was like a blur. No one could see for a couple of seconds. Then when their vision was returned the mother was gone, nowhere to be seen. Then the Dad and the boy heard a scream in the distance. Then the family realized this was far worse than the dream vacation they all thought they were going on. The boy and the father immediately started sprinting for their lives. For hours on hours they were searching desperately for the entrance but it was nowhere to be found. At last they found the entrance out of the maze. Once they got to the exit the dad made it out but at the last second the corn shot across like a curtain making a wall trapping the boy inside. The boy had no idea what to do he tried shouting for help but there was no answer to be heard. The boy had no choice to wander the maze looking for another way out.

The sun was starting to set and the evening chills were wandering through the air. maze4The maze almost seemed endless to the boy. It was like it was evolving and moving as time passed. After hours of searching for a way out the boy was tired. He had to rest somewhere.  He decided to lay down in a corner where the boy thought nothing could find him.

He woke up the sun is eyes but he felt something creep across his arm he looked at it and saw corn husks slowly wrapping around his arm and other parts of his limbs. He tried to free himself but he was to weak.  He could not move at all. The corn then started to pull him into the dark rich soil.  Everything was dark nothing to be heard or seen. He awoke in a small dark room with one old dim light hanging from the center. The boy was thinking trying to remember anything he could to figure out what was going on.

Then he remembered that on the signs stating “beware of blur” there was always black smudges.  They were on the maze sign, on the corn that trapped him in, and on the corn that pulled him to this room. He realized this is the blur, the blur was what took his mom, trapped him, and what brought him here. This is the blur’s maze and it has been manipulating it and everything that ever dared to enter.

The boy got out of the chair he was in and inspected the roomaze5m. He noticed there was a small door in front of him that he didn’t seem to notice before. He cautiously opened the door to find an open field with his mom and dad standing in the middle.  He walked toward them and progressed to a sprint.  When he reached them he was shocked to find that they were gone.  Then another humanoid figure was standing almost hovering in front of him.  He reached out and felt it. He heard a faint voice say,

“Here you are, you have passed all my tests now…here before you stands the final
test.”

The blur vanished. He looked up and saw his parents again standing apart from another. Choices2.jpg They had ropes around them.  He heard the voice again say “choose”.  The boy realized he had to choose one of his parents.  He thought he could never choose one parent over another.  He would have to live with the grief that he killed one of his parents forever. Thoughts started racing through his head about his parents and what they have done for him. He couldn’t pick he just couldn’t.

The thought of grief kept cycling through his head.  Then he realized something he could pick his own life instead of theirs.  He thought he had to do this, he could not pick between his parents.  He yelled out,

“I will pick myself!”

The blur replied “if you wish” instantly everything was black, it was the same feeling as when he was put into the room.  He heard another voice say “congratulations you have passed.”  The boy was stunned. He remembered every thing was a test and maybe this was the right choice. The voice again said “by choosing yourself to save two was very honorable, every other person I have tested did not choose themselves and then I banished them to the Maze forever.  You have passed so you and your family are free I will return you home”.  Again everything was black the same feeling as before.  He awoke in front of the maze with his family.  There was their car, the worker was back at the gas station.  They filled up and continued on their dream vacation. But the thought of the blur lingered in their minds forever…

THE END

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In business and in our life, sometimes it feels as if we are in a maze.  Perhaps a clear direction isn’t on your current horizon and you must make a choice to go right, left, turn around, or just keep going straight ahead.  Regardless of our current location or your desired destination, we will all have to make choices along the way.  Those choices will of course effect you and in turn they will also effect those around you.  At TYGES ,we understand the value of of making the right decision.  Sometimes that choice is not the easiest thing to do; yet, it is simply the right thing to do.

I encourage your feedback and would like to connect with you on LinkedIn. You can also follow me at twitter @SKraigWare as I focus on striving for excellence within the business world and within our personal lives. Learn more about TYGES at www.TYGES.com, on Twitter @TYGESInt, or here on our blog.

Our mission is simple:

We’re here to make good things happen to other people.

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Team Event – PSCs4Pies

by Kraig Ware, VP of Operations

We recently held our annual team event in Williamsburg, VA.  At this year’s event, we wanted to do something different, something that would outwardly reflect our company’s mission statement.  From that, PSCs4Pies was created.

As a company, we decided to tie one of our key metrics (PSC) to a donation that would go towards someone in our community that impacts us all everyday.  So, for every PSC that we generated as a team, TYGES donated $2.  During this event, we were able to generate about $800. This money was then used to purchase pies for our community servants, the folks that put their lives on the line everyday to protect us, our families, and our communities:

  • IMG_1955_edited-1Fire FightersGA PSCs4Pies
  • Police Officers
  • Emergency Medical Teams
  • Social Services
  • And other community workers that provide basic needs to those who would otherwise do without.

These folks should always hold a special place in our hearts and lives.  Especially with the recent events that have negatively targeted some of these brave men and women.

As a team, we had a great time together enjoying various competitions and team building fun; yet more Team Pic Social Mediaimportantly, we were able to make an impact in our community. #GivingBack

At TYGES, our mission is simple:

We’re here to make good things happen to other people.